De twee gevaarlijkste woorden

Er zijn ondermijnende woorden die je waarschijnlijk erg veel gebruikt. Als je ze vrij spel geeft, kunnen ze zelfs je leven verwoesten.
Als ik nu vertel over welke woorden het gaat, zal je erg verbaasd zijn.

De twee woorden zijn…

NOG NIET

Deze twee woorden lijken onschuldig en ze geven je een korte adempauze. Je zegt immers niet NEE en je verschuift je verplichting naar de toekomt.

Het lijkt dus alsof je JA zegt.

Maar je zegt niet JA. Eigenlijk zeg je NEE.

  • Ik zoek een job in iets wat ik erg graag doen…als ik tijd heb
  • Ik maak die lange reis…op het juiste moment. Nu is het te druk in mijn leven.
  • Ik zal zeker meer tijd met mijn gezin doorbrengen ….als ik die promotie vastheb.
  • Ik ben van plan die cursus te volgen….als ik de moed heb

 

Wat kan je uit bovenstaande zinnen leren ?

Wat je echt zegt is : Ik zal het wel doen als het risico of de moeite miniem is.

En als je wat dieper denkt : ik stel die dromen uit omdat dat comfortabeler is.

 

Zo leven erg veel mensen : ze verschuilen zich achter veilige, comfortabele en onschuldiglijkende woorden zoals… NOG NIET.

 

En jij ?
Gebruik je deze woorden zelf ook af en toe ?

Bedrieg jij jezelf ook met deze woorden ?

By Ingrid V.

Creatieve 1000-poot en freelance trainer met interesses als GTD, productiviteit, persoonlijke ontwikkeling, management, blogging, technologie,

38 comments

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